I had other plans this Summer Solstice / Fathers Day evening.
But upon – suddenly – discovering a long lost much treasured family heirloom
A truly DAD-flavored – authentic – dad-joke-story
I felt compelled to share it in honor of my partner/soulmate Wings Hauser and my “father in love,” Dwight Hauser. “ Father-In-Love is an expression coined by Wings.
He called his parents my “ parents in love,” not “parents in law.”
So Summer Solstice has always been a special day for me.
This year, things are extra challenging.
But I can report that this weekend has been among the most comforting I have experienced throughout this year.
My soulmate, has comforted me every day since the day we met but this ENTIRE Wedding Anniversary month & this Summer Solstice / Fathers weekend – things got ‘turnt-up.’
He brought along the posse to let me know again what I have been told on so many occasions : ‘to let me know ‘he’s got my back’ in Spirit just as in life – just as he told me he would – just as all of my experiences lately have been telling me – VERY CLEARLY – and brought along his dad and brother .
Now you have to understand that this story takes on whatever form the storyteller chooses.
There are many ways to tell this story, and we will tell it on screen as part of our future project.
Like all stories, it takes shape from the soul & sorcery of the teller.
So please keep in mind when you look at the screenshots included in this montage – that while they do not reflect the exact nature of the way, our story is told – simply finding this story with the title and overall flavor (pun intended ) somewhat intact – is EPIC for our family. This ultimate dad-joke-story SO often, SO lovingly re-told by Wings
in honor of HIS dad Dwight – who told it so often to family & friends that it became a dad-joke in itself. But a good one filled with his natural, easy-going humor, and love for family, colleagues, people in general, wildlife & life herself. All qualities that define the integrity of my soulmate, all qualities that live on in our home, our partnership our ongoing works.
The title of the joke / story is “ Siberian Peach Pie.” You have to think of this story as a priceless heirloom in our family for decades. MUCH more valuable than diamonds. A priceless treasure, which becomes even more valuable when it is SHARED.
Please STOP & Think of THAT in the context of our world today.
That is why I stopped my evening to share it with you.
Because I know my partner-in-love, has guided me once again & this time he included my father-in-love, mother-in-love & brother-in-love.
I have never dared to look up the title of the story for fear of disappointment. I have all the notes to the story but today – after a series of miraculous events taking place daily now – something nudged me to “just Google it!”
A few moments ago, this epic heirloom story told for decades within our family JUST suddenly unearthed itself to me on this Epic Summer Solstice 2026 / Fathers Day !
I can no longer doubt the spiritual miracles taking place for us.
In a way I am “coming out of the spiritual closet” enthralled to anticipate my future sharing of all that makes the excruciating grief of this past year, somewhat bearable.
For me, THIS grief is not bearable. I honestly do not know how I am still functioning, except for the power of eternal love, the knowledge of genuine life after life through the unbreakable bond between my partner & I and – the evidence – YES – evidence of my partner reaching out to me exactly in the manner that he told me he would. The discovery of this story heirloom tonight being the latest in a series of gob-smacking experiences which I have shared with our very dearest and closest, and which I have documented very carefully.
The fact that he not only told me how he would never leave, but also left notes and follows through on them – is not something I would’ve understood, had he not explained everything to me long ago.
I’m still following the gluten-free breadcrumbs that my partner wrote for me and showed me and I am expanding the learning on a moment by moment basis not just through the deep work I have always done as an artist- ever since I was a precocious child, but extra grateful for the outstanding work done in this area by evidentiary researchers like Sandra Champlain, Liz Entin, and the spectacular evidentiary mediums I’ve encountered along with so many books & podcasts. All of this information has made it possible for me to know that I am not “losing my cupcake cupcakes” – that I must continue to listen to not just my soulmate, but my own soul. The wisdom that can only be accessed through deep work. The wisdom which has always guided me in my art, but it’s now also guiding me in every breath I take on behalf of my soulmate, carrying our twin souls in my heart and into the future as he carries me.
A few few years ago I had been blessed with an amazing therapist who helped me deal with my childhood. After working together for about a year and a half, she said that she could no longer take my money because I had done 10 years of work in such a short time and that we could just meet for tea every once in a while so she could check on my progress. And then – she gave me a very spiritual book to read. Having been skipped many grades in school my teachers & mentors had referred to me as“ wise beyond my years and – an old soul.” But I must say I was quite surprised & maybe a little critical that my therapist could enjoy reading such spiritual material. I was actually shocked that such a scientific – logical and even conservative individual could believe in such spiritual matters as life after life, reincarnation etc. I really did not enjoy or understand the book back then but it’s all coming into very sharp focus now. Amazingly that therapist – my friend – has also transitioned this past year. The lessons are presenting themselves on a moment by moment basis and like the good student that I am – I am drinking in the knowledge and assiduously doing the homework .
Copious amounts of research and documenting every contact from him – has led me to understand what I never thought I could fathom.
The real shocker includes the fact that our current movie release deals with many of these spiritual matters and the next script, which was written and registered five years ago – also includes this subject matter. I see now that I have been dealing with all of this as an artist, but not as a person. I always referred to my precocious artwork as a form of ‘channeling.’ But honestly I just said it so casually as though it was no big thing. I never really thought about the process. I just followed it as simply as drinking a glass of water.
More on this in the future.
But for today, this Father’s Day Summer Solstice 2026 –
Please enjoy the ultimate dad-joke-story – even if it’s only in its generic Internet form.
Granted, this will be far better flavored with our family touch – when properly told in the future